Agatha Seymour's

I’m a real daydreamer. Unfortunately I can rarely use this characteristic of mine in life. I sometimes get angry why on earth I didn’t study some kind of exact science for example physics or something else which is measurable and keeps me on the ground. One of the most important things that I’ve learned from my favorite writer (he was a doctor) is that one can always profit from rationalism, it teaches us to be reasonable, consistent, practical and it never goes out of fashion. If you want to know more about the writer please visit: agathaseymour.com

I tend to forget the most important rules of life. The most important one is to do enough or rather everything for today and for the future. Sometimes after a lazy weekend, it is only in the confusion of idleness that the old adage of Confucius comes to my mind: ‘Study the past if you would define the future.’ Undoubtedly we will be able to harvest the crops of those seeds in the future which we sow today and which we take good care of afterwards. If you want to know more about the writer please visit: agathaseymour.com

As hard it is to reach happiness, it is as easy at the same time. It’ advisable to factualize this aspect of life, as well as a lot of other things. There is a fairly easy trick; you write a list about things that would make you happy then you think through which of these depend on you and what you can do to reach them, after that you only have to realize them. In my experience, it’s worth writing down seemingly insignificant things, which doesn’t seem important for the first sight because it only gives momentary pleasure. Realizing these ideas always gives me a sense of satisfaction and I always feel good due to them. If you want to know more about the writer please visit: agathaseymour.com

Everybody is looking for happiness throughout a lifetime, some find it and some suffer from the lack of it during their whole life. In my experience, happiness, in some ways, is also the question of skill. For some life offers again and again that things will go great but can’t use the opportunity because he/she is constantly lamenting on whether it’ll be good enough for him/her or whether this decision perfectly lives up to society’s expectations. One of my psychologist friends commented on the question: ‘If one wants to be happy on the basis of the world and the society’s expectations he/she is very likely to be unhappy. If there is any possible advice to give, maybe it would be that everybody should be happy on their own ways as they can and as they dare’ he said. If you want to know more about the writer please visit: agathaseymour.com

A lot of people complain that their darling has become lazy, inattentive and he has put on other unpleasant habits. Unfortunately I must tell you that in most cases the problem is with us, because it is us who make the other get used to being served without return. It’s advisable to consciously build up the everydays of our relationship for the beginning and to pay attention not to let things become unhealthily disproportionate. Later on it’s more difficult to change set habits and that’s why it’s worth keeping in mind the saying: what today is a favor tomorrow a requirement… If you want to know more about the writer please visit: agathaseymour.com

When you are in love, you attribute every delicate feeling inside you and inner wealth to the other. You think that it’s thanks to the other that you are in that heavenly state, that you are deliriously happy in love. If we think it through every feeling that we experience is ours, the energy and the elevated state of mind is in us and not in the other. It’s hard to accept but we are this beauty, this glare, the universal energy, the other is just a mirror. If you want to know more about the writer please visit: agathaseymoour.com

There are some who take revenge immediately after taking offence, some just tolerate silently and go on hoping that things are going to work out. I’m convinced that everything has its reasons, even if our short life doesn’t provide us enough time to get to know the cause-effect. By taking revenge we just call our wrong karma to life. I’m not suggesting that we should be victimized, but that we should calmly think the events through and instead of giving rise to negative feelings in us, we should be grateful for the teaching and should do our best to let life compensate us. If you want to know more about the writer please visit agathaseymour.com

Who on earth, I mean which women, wouldn’t be an enthusiastic romantic? And since this sort of excitement is rather typical of us, we might help a bit our desires to be satisfied if we slip them into our life with a bit of attention and creativity. In a relationship surprises can work as real aphrodisiacs and there are no men who could resist an exciting adventure together. Nobody should decline organizing events which don’t necessarily belong to the favorites of our partner, in my life those events had the greatest effect which we still recall as a shocking experience. :) If you want to know more about the writer please visit: agathaseymour.com